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About Carla

Carla Van Walsum was trained in the Netherlands in Clinical Psychology, Holistic Therapies, and Family Constellations, and owns HeartBased Solutions, a thriving integrative practice for individuals, parents, and families. Currently, she is a PhD candidate in the United States.

For over 20 years, Carla has been an internationally recognized teacher in the areas of personal development, relationships, personal & inherited traumas, and emotional healing.

She has helped many clients create quantum progress through her unique combination of psychological, spiritual, and metaphysical approaches.

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  • I just want to express how amazed I am at the work you do and how it all works. My son Zak who is 9 has been out of control at school, at aftercare and at home with all the symptoms of ADHD. He expressed some dark thoughts and I was really concerned that he was going to suffer and destroy his life like his father but before putting him on medication, we gave your work a try. After this group session, Zak has been back to his own self again, happy, funny and loving. I receive great notes from his teachers and I can finally relax. It became so clear that the patterns of his father and grandfather were at play and the cycle could be broken and it can be that simple. Zachary took this work seriously and naturally. Kids understand soul love, forgiveness and energy. My son is very thankful to you too

    Edie M., LMT Boca Raton, FL
  • My daughter has a lot of problems with social anxiety. She has a really hard time talking to most people, especially in school. We have started therapy with Carla a few weeks ago. Carla uses a very balanced approach, where she focuses on underlying emotions and behavior at the same time. The therapists we’ve tried in the past seemed to exclusively do either one or the other. Moreover she uses art therapy to help my daughter open up. What I like very much and seems to be especially helpful is that Carla looks at the bigger picture in terms of family dynamics and past trauma, which can even include past generations. After only a few sessions I can see a difference in my daughter. She still needs more work but she has definitely started talking more to other kids and is now often able to give short answers even to stranger’s questions, which has always been very difficult for her.

    S.H. Lake Worth, FL

I know it's difficult, I was like you 2 years ago

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